The days are harder now. Gail Gleason watches her son ebb as ALS slowly takes him away. He gave much when he was in the NFL. Many now are returning the gesture.
PULLMAN — Gail Gleason still possesses that electric smile, that infectious laugh, that zest for life she passed on to her children. Most of the time. Inevitably, there are moments when her voice cracks and her eyes glisten and she must leave work to go home and face the fact that her eldest son – former Washington State football and baseball player and NFL safety Steve Gleason – is dying.
“Right now, there’s virtually nothing that he can move on his own,” Gail said softly over lunch in downtown Pullman. “His hands are in hand rests, and he can push the joy stick.
“He’s skeletal, so every time I see him it’s a shocker. He’s got tubes everywhere for feeding and urinating and for breathing.
“No,” she corrected herself. “Not for breathing yet. We’re not going there, all right?”
Steve Gleason, as millions of people around the world are aware, suffers from the neurological disease amyotrophic lateral sclerosis. There is no cure for the malady, more commonly known as ALS, or Lou Gehrig’s disease.
“If anything goes wrong,” Gail says matter-of-factly, “then that’s going to be it. It’s to that point.”
Steve, wife Michel and their young son, Rivers, have spent the past two summers in North Idaho. Gail, a former Spokane and Mukilteo school teacher who works closely with football players and other Cougars athletes on academic matters, visits her son frequently.
“His goal — and he’s always been good at meeting his goals – is to be there for Rivers when he can stand on his own,” Gail said. “And it’s to make a difference, which he is doing in the ALS community.”
As soon as Steve learned he had ALS in January 2011, he went public with the news. With typical earnestness, he immediately began raising funds and awareness to fight the dreaded disease.
The next major fundraiser is the second annual Gleasonfest, an all-day street party Aug. 24 with live music, food and a beer garden at Main and Division in downtown Spokane. For tickets and sponsorship information, go to www.teamgleason.org/
Steve spent his entire NFL career with New Orleans from 2000-06. He was known more for his fearless play on special teams than for great skill.
What Steve, 36, always possessed, dating back to his high school days at Gonzaga Prep in Spokane and beyond, is great courage, as well as great passion for his fellow man.
Steve has long been involved in charitable activities in New Orleans. When Hurricane Katrina struck the Gulf Coast in 2005, Steve and Gail asked the WSU community to donate backpacks filled with school supplies – and, Steve insisted, a children’s book and a stuffed animal – to aid youngsters impacted by the tragedy.
“Eight thousand backpacks . . . $500,000 . . . an alum with FedEx donated a trailer (truck) . . . guys from Steve’s fraternity stuffed the backpacks . . . it was absolutely amazing,” Gail recalls.
The backpacks were Gail’s idea.
Now, Gail says proudly, a WSU engineering professor has come up with another great idea. He’s directing a senior project aimed at speeding up the computer and camera apparatus which permits Steve (who can no longer speak) to type by following his eyes on a keyboard.
For obvious reasons, Gail loves Cougar Nation, even though she grew up near Washington’s campus and graduated a Husky. She values the support she and her son have received from work associates and other Cougars during this incredibly trying time in their lives.
“You just gave to go with it,” Gail said. “I mean, as a mom. When he was just starting to walk – we lived across from (Spokane’s Shadle Park) – I took him over, and there’s two slides. There’s this one and this gigantic one. I stood there, and after he had mastered this very quickly – he stood there and watched the big kids go up the big slide – the next thing I know, he’s heading up there.
“I thought, ‘Gail, you’ve got to be prepared to let him go and go as far as he can and just be there for him and support him.’”
Three decades later and counting, Gail Gleason is doing just that.